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Question: How does one get through divorce in a positive light?
S from Texas
Dear S from Texas,
Three things. Believe that:
• Through pain, we find triumph in our personal lives, and then experience peace if we allow it. Know that you are capable of healing.
• It is possible to forgive anyone, under any circumstances. Forgiveness is a true miracle we can experience at any time, free of charge.
• Your path has changed for the better. You are learning a lesson at the level of the soul that you have chosen in this lifetime. It’s difficult to go through, but remember – you are moving through it, not stuck there permanently. Personal growth sometimes hurts in the beginning – and then we emerge with greater trust and perspective after the lesson is over.
Keep Affirming!
I leave this relationship with grace and dignity. I know my own soul must grow in an area outside the perimeter of this relationship. No matter how painful the past, I am thankful that this venture has been a part of my learning journey because it helps me more clearly define myself. My ability to give and receive love remains intact. My heart is healing. I have tremendous capacity to love others, no matter the circumstances.